Thursday, May 14, 2015

Teachable Moments

"Paw Paw, why does every conversation have to include a life lesson?'
-My Granddaughter

I think every experience in life is a teachable moment.  These moments are not only an opportunity for me to teach others but also an opportunity for life to teach me.  In the work environment we often use the term “coachable” moment.  I don’t really like this term because it implies to me that the events of a particular moment always need to be corrected.  Some experiences are what they are, and while some mistakes may need to be corrected, mistakes are not the only soil from which a learning opportunity sprouts.  As a teacher of mine once said, “The moment is as perfect as it can be”.  All of life is a never ending learning experience.  It doesn’t matter how old you are or how many degrees you hold, life will continue to teach you.  Sometimes I think I know everything I need to know but life keeps enlightening me with even more knowledge and wisdom.  As I’ve said before, in recent years my granddaughter has been my teacher.  Like most children, she is a natural Zen Master.  When I am with her I try to see life through her eyes.  When I am with her I try to let my inner child appear as her playmate.  Sometimes, when I let go, I can be a ten year old child.  When this happens I can see life with a renewed freshness and not through the eyes of a tired, slightly jaded, sixty four year old man.  Of course, there are some people who think I act like a ten year old way too often. 

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