After Brown Thursday, Black Friday, Buy Local Saturday, and today’s Cyber Monday, the holiday season is in full swing for the next three weeks. Let me come out of the closet. I am no Clark Griswold but I am no Ebenezer Scrooge either. What I am is a person who often find the holidays difficult. More often than not, I find the holidays a little depressing. I have no identifiable reason for this since I have never had a bad holiday experience. I think what is difficult for me and many other people is what I consider the unreasonable expectations for the holidays. On a very basic level, most people struggle financially all year long. The pressure of gift buying only adds to this challenge. Another pressure is the mandatory happiness and joy we are all expected to feel. On top of this is the busyness of decorating, trips to the Mall, and family activities. Whenever my granddaughter comes over my wife and I stress ourselves out moving the “Elf on a Shelf” around our house. I am also a little sad because my granddaughter is growing up and I am not sure how much longer she will believe in Santa and little elves. I think this year she is on the fence. She does seem to get excited when the Elf moves from the shelf to the Christmas tree to riding bareback with one of the three Wise men. Through all of this I try to put on a happy face and to be appreciative and grateful for everyone and everything in my life. If you are also a person who struggles with the holiday expectations, know that you are not alone. My advice is to do what I try to do all year long. Be in the moment and be grateful. The holidays are well intentioned even if the demands and expectations are usually unrealistic. I read a holiday mantra recently that said, “Slow down. Be in the moment. Lower your expectations”. Sounds like good advice to me.
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